Relationship Coaching Training Fall 2022
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Syllabus
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Logistics & Resources
- Calendar & Class Zoom Links
- Documents and Resources
- F21 Contact List & Supervision Groups
- Orientation Replay & MIT Introduction
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Module 1: Big Picture and Purpose of PCRC
- Overview of Module 1
- Welcome
- Orientation Replay
- The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
- The 3-part Coaching Framework
- Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
- PCRC Training Manual
- How to be Successful in this Course
- PCRC Manifesto
- Class 1 Replay
- Partner Practice 1
- PCRC Manual & Model Docs
- Class 2 Replay
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Module 2: Principles, Goals, Confidentiality, Ethics
- Overview of Module 2
- Client Goal
- Coaching Principles: Life is Trustworthy
- Coaching Principles: Love
- Coaching Principles: Relationship as a Path
- Coaching Principles: Relational Leadership
- Coaching Principles: Security and Client Growth
- Coaching Principles: Law of the Farm, Trust, Direct Experience
- Coaching Principles: Behavior, Relationship Stages, Here and Now
- Setting the Coaching Container and Holding Space
- Coach Confidentiality
- Code of Ethics
- Bonus: Coaching Principles: The Primary Intention I Should Hold as a Coach
- Class 3 Replay
- Partner Practice 2
- DPIR/Relationship Mastery Replay
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Module 3: The Six Client Outcomes and Six Coach Practices
- Overview of Module 3 (To be completed by Class 6, Nov 2)
- Administrative and Tech
- Coach Practices: Presence
- Coach Practices: Attunement
- Coach Practices: Support
- Coach Practices: Challenge
- Coach Practices: Develop their Story
- Coach Practices: Entanglement
- Client Outcomes: Insight
- Client Outcomes: Be With
- Client Outcomes: Personal Responsibility
- Client Outcomes: Empathy (Mindsight)
- Client Outcomes: Integration and Lessons
- Client Outcomes: Action and Accountability
- Equity Call 1
- Bonus: 3 Things That Facilitate Change – Carl Rogers
- Partner Practice 3
- Class 4 Replay
- Live Intensive Replay
- Class 5 Replay
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Module 4: Your First Session and “Be with” Skills
- Overview of Module 4 (To be Completed by November 16)
- Your First Session: Jayson reviewing Ray’s First Session
- Your First Session: Jayson reviewing Melissa’s First Session
- Your First Session: Building Rapport
- Your First Session: Setting Coaching Context
- Helping A Client “Be With” His Fear
- Equity Call 2
- Bonus: Jayson Modeling a First Session – Leah
- Class 6 Replay
- DPIR/Relationship Mastery Replay
- Client Documents
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Module 5: Transmission, Motivational Interviewing & Values
- Transmission 1 – Big Picture
- Transmission 2 – Regulating Them When They Are Dysregulated
- Transmission 3 – Showing Them How To Listen And Speak Differently
- Transmission 4 – Show And Tell Them What It’s Like To Be In A Relationship With Them
- Transmission 5 – Talking About vs Talking From
- Transmission 6 – Be A Real Person By Sharing Impact
- Double Bind – Two Shitty Choices
- Motivational Interviewing
- Jayson Coaching Leah Helping Her Client Get to the Root Issue
- Class 8 Replay
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Module 6: Personal Responsibility & Deflection
- Helping a Client to Own Their Part
- How to Get a Client to Talk About Self
- Working with Deflection in Your Clients
- Class 9 Replay
- Class 10 Replay
- DPIR/Relationship Mastery Replay
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Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda
- Using Coach Entanglement
- Owning and Letting Go of Your Agenda
- OPTIONAL: Transparent Coaching Approach with Cheating Issue
- Class 11 Replay
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Module 8: More Support Than Challenge, Resistant Clients, Boundaries with Sexual Abuse
- Client Wanting More Support Than Challenge
- Working With a “Resistant” Client
- How to Set a Boundary with a Client Sharing About Sexual Abuse History
- OPTIONAL: Coaching About a Possible Separation and Self-Connection
- Class 12 Replay
- Class 13 Replay
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Module 9: Transmission and The Here and Now
- Why Does Transmission Involve Here and Now
- 4 Types of Here and Now Experiments
- Here And Now With A Client
- OPTIONAL: What To Do With A Power Struggle With A Client In The Here And Now
- Class 14 Replay
- DPIR/Relationship Mastery Replay
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Module 10: Getting Their World, First
- Seen Before Solutions – Trying to Understand What It’s Like to Be Them
- How To Tell If You Are Misattuned To A Client And What To Do About It
- OPTIONAL: Jayson Coaching Client Around Feeling Lost with His Compass and Purpose
- Class 15 Replay
- Class 16 Replay
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Module 11: How To Challenge And Deepen A Client’s Decision
- Holding A Boundary
- When Your Client Says “I don’t want to upset the other person”
- How To Challenge And Deepen Someone’s Decision
- Jayson Coaching Christen: Distrust And Deception In A Partnership
- OPTIONAL: Jayson Coaching Patrick
- Class 17 Replay
- DPIR/Relationship Mastery Replay
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Module 12: Eye Contact, Feelings, Blankness, Pacing
- Being With – Grief, Feeling, And The Importance Of Eye Contact
- Coach Going “Blank” In A Session
- Pacing In Coaching
- What To Do When A Client Asks For Advice
- OPTIONAL: Jayson Coaching Ciara
- Class 18 Replay
- Class 19 Replay
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Module 13: Reframing The Past
- Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
- Transitioning A Client To A 180
- 180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
- OPTIONAL: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
- Class 20 Replay
- DPIR/Relationship Mastery Replay
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Module 14: Emotions And The 180
- Emotions And Coaching
- When A Client Is Emotional And Shuts Down
- Client Feeling Demo – Jayson & Arif
- When to support and NOT challenge (Trauma)
- 180 With Abby – Self-Judgment And Self-Worth
- 180 With Shannon – Not Feeling Chosen
- Class 21 Replay
- Class 22 Replay
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Module 15: Ending Coaching
- Meeting A Client Where They Are
- Confronting People’s Fantasies About Relationships
- Ending Your Coaching And Final Session
- Jayson Coaching Client: Helping Client Get In Touch With His Heart And Chose His Self-Protection
- Class 23 Replay
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Module 16: Self Acceptance, Self Worth, Integrating Power
- When A Client Is In Heavy Dysregulated Emotion
- Self Acceptance vs Self Mastery
- Helping Client Integrate Their New Found Heart And Power Connection To Self
- Don’t Let Your Clients Off The Hook
- Jayson Coaching Greg – Difficult Conversations, Ownership And Clarity
- Jayson Coaching Client On Self Worth Using 180
- Class 24 Replay
- Class 25 Replay
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(AVAILABLE NOW) Module 17: Conflict & Sexual Attraction With Clients
- Opportunities To “Teach” In A Session
- When “Nothing Is Happening” During A Session
- Conflict With A Client
- When A Client Is Attracted To The Coach
- Class 26 Replay
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