Relationship Coach Training Fall 2023 – Spring 2024

by | Aug 24, 2023

Today, the Relationship School’s Relationship Coach Training® program is second-to-none.

By becoming a Certified Relationship Coach at The Relationship School®, you will:

  • Be trained in Interpersonal Intelligence® the only map that shows how relationships really work and how to do them well
  • Get trained in Present Centered Relationship Coaching®
  • Get cutting-edge education on relationship dynamics from Jayson Gaddis, founder of The Relationship School® (so much has been discovered in the last 6 years… it’s an emerging science!)
  • And much much more!

Course Information

Estimated Time: 9 months

Course Instructor

Josh Josh Author

Logistics & Resources

Calendar & Class Zoom Links
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RCT Student Master Document
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Orientation Replay
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Office Hours Sept 19th Replay
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Homework & Partner Practice Documents
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Trauma Informed

Code of Ethics
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Helping a client get resourced – body
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Helping a client get resourced – visualization
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Regulating them when they are dysregulated
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How to connect to self before, during, and after session
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How to regulate a client
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When to support and not challenge (trauma)
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When a client is in heavy dysregulated emotion (Shannon coaching Stacey)
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Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 1
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Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 2
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Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 3
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Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 4
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Class Replays

Large Group Class Call [09.26.23]
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Q&A Class Call [09.28.23]
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Large Group Class Call [10.10.23]
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Office Hours [10.12.23]
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Q&A Class Call [10.19.23]
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Live Intensive [10.24.23]
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Large Group Class Call [11.07.23]
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DEIB Q&A Class Call [11.16.23]
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Large Group Class Call [11.21.23]
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Large Group Class Call [12.05.23]
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Q&A Class Call [12.14.23]
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Large Group Class Call [12.19.23]
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Large Group Class Call [01.09.24]
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Q&A Class Call [01.18.24]
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Large Group Class Call [01.23.24]
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Large Group Class Call [02.06.24]
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Q&A Class Call [2.15.24]
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Large Group Class Call [2.20.24]
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DEIB Class Call [2/22/24]
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Large Group Class Call [3.5.24]
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Q&A Class Call [3.7.24]
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Q&A Class Call [3.14.204]
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Large Group Class Call [3.19.24]
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Large Group Class Call [4/9/24]
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Q&A Class Call [04.18.24]
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Large Group Class Call [4/23/24]
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Large Group Class Call [5/7/24]
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Live Intensive [5/10/24]
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Large Group Class Call [5/21/24]
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Module 1: Big Picture and Purpose of PCRC

Welcome
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The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
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The 3-part Coaching Framework
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Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
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PCRC Training Manual
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How to be Successful in this Course
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PCRC Manifesto
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How to be a Client
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Don’t be Attached to the Outcome With Your Clients
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Present Centered Relationship Coaching Manual
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Module 2: Principles, Goals, Confidentiality, Ethics

Client Goal
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Coaching Principles: Life is Trustworthy
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Coaching Principles: Love
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Coaching Principles: Relationship as a Path
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Coaching Principles: Relational Leadership
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Coaching Principles: Security and Client Growth
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Coaching Principles: Law of the Farm, Trust, Direct Experience
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Coaching Principles: Behavior, Relationship Stages, Here and Now
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Setting the Coaching Container and Holding Space
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Coach Confidentiality
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Code of Ethics
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BONUS: The Primary Intention I Should Hold as a Coach
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Module 3: The Six Client Outcomes and Six Coach Practices 

Administrative
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Coach Practices: Presence
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Coach Practices: Attunement
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Coach Practices: Support
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Coach Practices: Challenge
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Coach Practices: Develop Their Story
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Coach Practices: Entanglement
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Client Outcomes: Insight
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Client Outcomes: Personal Responsibility
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Client Outcomes: Be With
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Client Outcomes: Empathy (Mindsight)
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Client Outcomes: Integration and Lessons
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Client Outcomes: Action and Accountability
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Equity Call 1
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BONUS: 3 Things That Facilitate Change – Carl Rogers
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Module 4: Your First Session and “Be with” Skills

Jayson Reviewing Ray’s First Session
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Jayson Reviewing Melissa’s First Session
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Jayson Modeling How to Build Rapport 
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Helping A Client “Be With” His Fear
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Helping A Client Get Resourced – Body
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Helping A Client Get Resourced – Visualization
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Coaching When a Clients Child is in the Room
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Lighting & Posture Over Zoom
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Populations We Are Not Qualified to Serve
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Equity Call 2
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Bonus: Jayson Modeling a First Session – Leah
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Bonus: Jayson Modeling a First Session – Warren
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Bonus: Jayson Reviewing His Coaching Session With John 
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Module 5: Transmission, Motivational Interviewing & Values

Transmission 1 – Big Picture
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Transmission 2 – Regulating Them When They Are Dysregulated
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Transmission 3 – Showing Them How To Listen And Speak Differently
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Transmission 4 – Show And Tell Them What It’s Like To Be In A Relationship With Them
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Transmission 5 – Talking About vs Talking From
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Transmission 6 – Be A Real Person By Sharing Impact
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Double Bind – Two Shitty Choices
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Motivational Interviewing
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Equity Call 3
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BONUS: Jayson Coaching Leah Helping Her Client Get to the Root Issue
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BONUS: Jayson Reviewing His Coaching Session With Greg
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Module 6: Personal Responsibility & Deflection

Helping a Client to Own Their Part
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How to Get a Client to Talk About Self
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Working with Deflection in Your Clients
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How to Connect to Self Before, During, & After Sessions
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BONUS: Challenging a Dad Who Has a lot of Fantasies About Partnership
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Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda 

Using Coach Entanglement
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How Coach Entanglement Helps A Coach
Owning and Letting Go of Your Agenda
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How to Regulate a Client
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What to do When a Coach is Talking Too Much
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BONUS: Transparent Coaching Approach with Cheating Issue
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Module 8: More Support Than Challenge, Resistant Clients, Boundaries with Sexual Abuse

Client Wanting More Support Than Challenge
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Working With a “Resistant” Client
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When A Client Discloses Sexual Abuse
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BONUS: Coaching About a Possible Separation and Self-Connection
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Module 9: Transmission and The Here and Now

Why Does Transmission Involve Here and Now
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4 Types of Here and Now Experiments
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Experiments in Coaching
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Here And Now With A Client
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BONUS: What To Do With A Power Struggle With A Client In The Here And Now
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Module 10: Getting Their World, First

Seen Before Solutions – Trying to Understand What It’s Like to Be Them
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How To Tell If You Are Misattuned To A Client And What To Do About It
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BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Around Feeling Lost with His Compass and Purpose
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BONUS: Jayson Coaching a Student – Trigger with Girlfriend
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Module 11: How To Challenge And Deepen A Client’s Decision

How To Challenge And Deepen Someone’s Decision
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When Your Client Says “I don’t want to upset the other person”
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Holding A Boundary
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Jayson Coaching Christen: Distrust And Deception In A Partnership
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BONUS: Identifying Self-Betrayal, Commitment Issues, & Being a People Pleaser
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Jayson Coaching a Student – Setting Boundaries with Daughter
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Module 12: Eye Contact, Feelings, Blankness, Pacing

Being With – Grief, Feeling, And The Importance Of Eye Contact
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Coach Going “Blank” In A Session
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Pacing In Coaching
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What To Do When A Client Asks For Advice
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BONUS: Jayson Coaching Ciara
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Module 13: Reframing The Past

Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
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Transitioning A Client To A 180
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180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
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Language Matters – Qualifiers
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BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
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Module 14: Emotions And The 180

Emotions And Coaching
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When A Client Is Emotional And Shuts Down
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Client Feeling Demo – Jayson & Arif
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When to support and NOT challenge (Trauma)
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BONUS: 180 With Abby – Self-Judgment And Self-Worth
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BONUS: 180 With Shannon – Not Feeling Chosen
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Module 15: Ending Coaching

Meeting A Client Where They Are
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Confronting People’s Fantasies About Relationships
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Ending Your Coaching And Final Session
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BONUS: Helping A Client Get In Touch With His Heart And Chose His Self-Protection
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Module 16: Self Acceptance, Self Worth, Integrating Power

When A Client Is In Heavy Dysregulated Emotion
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Self Acceptance vs Self Mastery
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Helping A Client Integrate Their New Found Heart And Power: Connection To Self
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Don’t Let Your Clients Off The Hook
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Self-Sabotaging Your Coaching Practice at the End of the Course 
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BONUS: Difficult Conversations, Ownership And Clarity
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BONUS: Coaching A Client On Self Worth Using 180
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BONUS: Fun Experiments around your Clients Messiness and Imperfections 
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BONUS: Jayson Coaching a Student on Standing Up to her Mother
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Module 17: Conflict & Sexual Attraction With Clients

When “Nothing Is Happening” During A Session
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Opportunities To “Teach” In A Session
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Conflict With A Client
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When A Client Is Attracted To The Coach
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BONUS: Jayson Helping a Client Repair and Address a Deeper Issue 
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