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How Coach Entanglement Helps A Coach

by gary@relationshipschool.com | Dec 10, 2021

Back to: Relationship Coach Training Fall 2023 – Spring 2024

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Using Coach Entanglement
Lesson 1 within section Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda . You must enroll in this course to access course content.
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Owning and Letting Go of Your Agenda
Lesson 3 within section Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda . You must enroll in this course to access course content.
  • Logistics & Resources
    • Calendar & Class Zoom Links
    • RCT Student Master Document
    • Orientation Replay
    • Office Hours Sept 19th Replay
    • Homework & Partner Practice Documents
  • Trauma Informed
    • Code of Ethics
    • Helping a client get resourced – body
    • Helping a client get resourced – visualization
    • Regulating them when they are dysregulated
    • How to connect to self before, during, and after session
    • How to regulate a client
    • When to support and not challenge (trauma)
    • When a client is in heavy dysregulated emotion (Shannon coaching Stacey)
    • Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 1
    • Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 2
    • Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 3
    • Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out Part 4
  • Class Replays
    • Large Group Class Call [09.26.23]
    • Q&A Class Call [09.28.23]
    • Large Group Class Call [10.10.23]
    • Office Hours [10.12.23]
    • Q&A Class Call [10.19.23]
    • Live Intensive [10.24.23]
    • Large Group Class Call [11.07.23]
    • DEIB Q&A Class Call [11.16.23]
    • Large Group Class Call [11.21.23]
    • Large Group Class Call [12.05.23]
    • Q&A Class Call [12.14.23]
    • Large Group Class Call [12.19.23]
    • Large Group Class Call [01.09.24]
    • Q&A Class Call [01.18.24]
    • Large Group Class Call [01.23.24]
    • Large Group Class Call [02.06.24]
    • Q&A Class Call [2.15.24]
    • Large Group Class Call [2.20.24]
    • DEIB Class Call [2/22/24]
    • Large Group Class Call [3.5.24]
    • Q&A Class Call [3.7.24]
    • Q&A Class Call [3.14.204]
    • Large Group Class Call [3.19.24]
    • Large Group Class Call [4/9/24]
    • Q&A Class Call [04.18.24]
    • Large Group Class Call [4/23/24]
    • Large Group Class Call [5/7/24]
    • Live Intensive [5/10/24]
    • Large Group Class Call [5/21/24]
  • Module 1: Big Picture and Purpose of PCRC
    • Welcome
    • The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
    • The 3-part Coaching Framework
    • Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
    • PCRC Training Manual
    • How to be Successful in this Course
    • PCRC Manifesto
    • How to be a Client
    • Don’t be Attached to the Outcome With Your Clients
    • Present Centered Relationship Coaching Manual
  • Module 2: Principles, Goals, Confidentiality, Ethics
    • Client Goal
    • Coaching Principles: Life is Trustworthy
    • Coaching Principles: Love
    • Coaching Principles: Relationship as a Path
    • Coaching Principles: Relational Leadership
    • Coaching Principles: Security and Client Growth
    • Coaching Principles: Law of the Farm, Trust, Direct Experience
    • Coaching Principles: Behavior, Relationship Stages, Here and Now
    • Setting the Coaching Container and Holding Space
    • Coach Confidentiality
    • Code of Ethics
    • BONUS: The Primary Intention I Should Hold as a Coach
  • Module 3: The Six Client Outcomes and Six Coach Practices 
    • Administrative
    • Coach Practices: Presence
    • Coach Practices: Attunement
    • Coach Practices: Support
    • Coach Practices: Challenge
    • Coach Practices: Develop Their Story
    • Coach Practices: Entanglement
    • Client Outcomes: Insight
    • Client Outcomes: Personal Responsibility
    • Client Outcomes: Be With
    • Client Outcomes: Empathy (Mindsight)
    • Client Outcomes: Integration and Lessons
    • Client Outcomes: Action and Accountability
    • Equity Call 1
    • BONUS: 3 Things That Facilitate Change – Carl Rogers
  • Module 4: Your First Session and “Be with” Skills
    • Jayson Reviewing Ray’s First Session
    • Jayson Reviewing Melissa’s First Session
    • Jayson Modeling How to Build Rapport 
    • Helping A Client “Be With” His Fear
    • Helping A Client Get Resourced – Body
    • Helping A Client Get Resourced – Visualization
    • Coaching When a Clients Child is in the Room
    • Lighting & Posture Over Zoom
    • Populations We Are Not Qualified to Serve
    • Equity Call 2
    • Bonus: Jayson Modeling a First Session – Leah
    • Bonus: Jayson Modeling a First Session – Warren
    • Bonus: Jayson Reviewing His Coaching Session With John 
  • Module 5: Transmission, Motivational Interviewing & Values
    • Transmission 1 – Big Picture
    • Transmission 2 – Regulating Them When They Are Dysregulated
    • Transmission 3 – Showing Them How To Listen And Speak Differently
    • Transmission 4 – Show And Tell Them What It’s Like To Be In A Relationship With Them
    • Transmission 5 – Talking About vs Talking From
    • Transmission 6 – Be A Real Person By Sharing Impact
    • Double Bind – Two Shitty Choices
    • Motivational Interviewing
    • Equity Call 3
    • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Leah Helping Her Client Get to the Root Issue
    • BONUS: Jayson Reviewing His Coaching Session With Greg
  • Module 6: Personal Responsibility & Deflection
    • Helping a Client to Own Their Part
    • How to Get a Client to Talk About Self
    • Working with Deflection in Your Clients
    • How to Connect to Self Before, During, & After Sessions
    • BONUS: Challenging a Dad Who Has a lot of Fantasies About Partnership
  • Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda 
    • Using Coach Entanglement
    • How Coach Entanglement Helps A Coach
    • Owning and Letting Go of Your Agenda
    • How to Regulate a Client
    • What to do When a Coach is Talking Too Much
    • BONUS: Transparent Coaching Approach with Cheating Issue
  • Module 8: More Support Than Challenge, Resistant Clients, Boundaries with Sexual Abuse
    • Client Wanting More Support Than Challenge
    • Working With a “Resistant” Client
    • When A Client Discloses Sexual Abuse
    • BONUS: Coaching About a Possible Separation and Self-Connection
  • Module 9: Transmission and The Here and Now
    • Why Does Transmission Involve Here and Now
    • 4 Types of Here and Now Experiments
    • Experiments in Coaching
    • Here And Now With A Client
    • BONUS: What To Do With A Power Struggle With A Client In The Here And Now
  • Module 10: Getting Their World, First
    • Seen Before Solutions – Trying to Understand What It’s Like to Be Them
    • How To Tell If You Are Misattuned To A Client And What To Do About It
    • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Around Feeling Lost with His Compass and Purpose
    • BONUS: Jayson Coaching a Student – Trigger with Girlfriend
  • Module 11: How To Challenge And Deepen A Client’s Decision
    • How To Challenge And Deepen Someone’s Decision
    • When Your Client Says “I don’t want to upset the other person”
    • Holding A Boundary
    • Jayson Coaching Christen: Distrust And Deception In A Partnership
    • BONUS: Identifying Self-Betrayal, Commitment Issues, & Being a People Pleaser
    • Jayson Coaching a Student – Setting Boundaries with Daughter
  • Module 12: Eye Contact, Feelings, Blankness, Pacing
    • Being With – Grief, Feeling, And The Importance Of Eye Contact
    • Coach Going “Blank” In A Session
    • Pacing In Coaching
    • What To Do When A Client Asks For Advice
    • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Ciara
  • Module 13: Reframing The Past
    • Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
    • Transitioning A Client To A 180
    • 180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
    • Language Matters – Qualifiers
    • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
  • Module 14: Emotions And The 180
    • Emotions And Coaching
    • When A Client Is Emotional And Shuts Down
    • Client Feeling Demo – Jayson & Arif
    • When to support and NOT challenge (Trauma)
    • BONUS: 180 With Abby – Self-Judgment And Self-Worth
    • BONUS: 180 With Shannon – Not Feeling Chosen
  • Module 15: Ending Coaching
    • Meeting A Client Where They Are
    • Confronting People’s Fantasies About Relationships
    • Ending Your Coaching And Final Session
    • BONUS: Helping A Client Get In Touch With His Heart And Chose His Self-Protection
  • Module 16: Self Acceptance, Self Worth, Integrating Power
    • When A Client Is In Heavy Dysregulated Emotion
    • Self Acceptance vs Self Mastery
    • Helping A Client Integrate Their New Found Heart And Power: Connection To Self
    • Don’t Let Your Clients Off The Hook
    • Self-Sabotaging Your Coaching Practice at the End of the Course 
    • BONUS: Difficult Conversations, Ownership And Clarity
    • BONUS: Coaching A Client On Self Worth Using 180
    • BONUS: Fun Experiments around your Clients Messiness and Imperfections 
    • BONUS: Jayson Coaching a Student on Standing Up to her Mother
  • Module 17: Conflict & Sexual Attraction With Clients
    • When “Nothing Is Happening” During A Session
    • Opportunities To “Teach” In A Session
    • Conflict With A Client
    • When A Client Is Attracted To The Coach
    • BONUS: Jayson Helping a Client Repair and Address a Deeper Issue 
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